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men rry when they are young, and women rry when they are young. thin unchanging principle since ancient times. although it ited to change cuge in new weddings, pared to the 1960s and 1970s bee more luxurious and the simple customs of people no longer exist. i am from zhuzhou, hunan. let me talk about the wedding customs in zhuzhou.

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matchmaker erriage

when men and women reach the age of marriage, their parenttchmaker. when the matchmaker dit there ippropriate age in the family, they firte with their parents and then te to arrange a blind date location, urket place. on the day of the market, both the man and the woman go to the detion, take a look at each other, say a few words, and show their cheerful personality on the lly, they will return home and talk to the matchmaker. after agreeing, the man will choose a date for engagement (we call it dingshi there). there it is favored by onerents coure related, parentn acquaintance to act aker. in the 1960ny courried in rural areas, and the third representative of siblingrried was more. this is called \"new relativerried with old relatives\", which is even more joyful, but this kind of close relativerried is still not good.

the engagement requires four kindt is, a few pieces of cloth. decent familiecron and dacron fabricnd those with poor economic conditionki cloth and cotton y, even if the engagement is succen go to the woman'nd send some giftn's home for the new year holiday. generally, the four kindre the mely, the beginning of l, the dragon boat feutumn fend the l. meat, egg piece of fabric, after a year or two, when both parties have no objectionn tellker that they can cut the t in telln the size of the shoemily). the man given some money for cutting the few tent time. the woman needir of ch member of the man'tch them with hand-embroidered inration before and after marriage

a necessary dowry for women

before marriage, the man given some money to buy a dowry. depending on the family's economic conditionn give the woman three to five thout once, and regardless of how much money she receiven, these thingted. one large wardrobe or bination cabicom, one table, four chairble, one food cabicom, one wack, two large wooden call wooden car to the larger travel case at preter bottlend toothbrushes, aluminum potter, prend other daily necessitiend a pair of pillows. thomily conditions will be equipped with a men' black and white tv set, an electric fan, etc. in fact, no matter how much money the man given, the woman'lly don't use much of the money, and they return it to their daughter to make container money.

what the man mure

in addition to giving the woman three or five thoun only needre one or two new housere about anything eln's family ind there is no dowry for the woman, the woman will alll the daily necessitiey before marriage, the man mu gift to the woman. the giftlf or one pig, chicken, clothes or fabricnd n's parentnd ll things should be put in place. a big rack should be urry them to the woman, n'n know what'nce. if the man's family condition is not good, he will borrow something to put on it to use all the things that went through the ceremony, except for the food, returned to the man the next day.

the woman s followckets in the quilt, uckets, each of which is 40 centker. the big wooden box is full of fruit, peanutto chipndy bind clothend socks when you rentnd n'ddition, the parents also need to give the daughter some box money (hundrednds depending on the conditionfter marrying the man, the mother-in-law will open the box the next day, and people in the village will e around to see the excitement, the purpose is to n has given enough money for the container.

on the day before marriage, the woman will notify the man how many people will e to lift thingy. generally, eight or more men are required becaun needs to carry everything to the man, and the man's room only needred with an empty house. the next morning, a wedding procenged for the man to go to the woman's house to wele her. the men had to go, including the groom, two brides (women), five to nd cobalt teamrrying thingll went to the woman've breakfast together, blowing and playing. after dinner, the woman sent off the wedding, with one man and two women seeing off the bride. the procerrying thing nd then the groom and bride followed with umbrellas. regardlether, each pern umbrella, blowing and beating all the way to the man for lunch.

after dinner, the wedding lso the most lively rriage. the purpose is to help the groom and bride eliminate the feeling of rioumke their body and ct, such as mouth to mouth eating dates, two people lighting firecrackers, kittensh picking. the more tricks, the better. no matter how big or n make after the 1980bit of making wedding lly changed to watching moviend singing.

concluge in that era was the lly for office workers and workertional food, let alone worry about anything. they had free love, and when they got married, their unit had a share of the houderlly hold the wedding for the young couple, and after marriage, the young couple de some furniture. unlike now, houses must be bought by themnd some people would bee property lifetime. that era waliter, with the development of nd the improvement of material living standardl giftrting with three major itemtchechines. later, it developed into four major itemjor items, and so on, until now, i won't bout it.