法院文件-反驳他出庭前的恶毒诡辩36（1 / 2）

ThisistheRespondent’sresponsetoKang’sresponsetotheRespondent’s“ResponsetoPetitionforAHCPO”

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1)2016-2022.PetitionerMr.Dai(Petitioner)andRespondentRespondenthadanuncommittedsexualrelationshipandhadtwoencountersinSeptember2016andFebruary2019.Afterthat，theydidnotmeeteachotheruntilSeptember2022

ResponsefromRespondent:

2016-2022.Petitionerconcealedhismarriagestatus，initialed，pursued，developed，maintainedintimaterelationshipwithme，constantlyshowedhisaffectiontome，includingintimateconversations，invitingmetomeetwithinternationaltrips，andpromisedmemanytimes“wemayhavechanceinthefuture”.IfitwasnotduetomyscheduleconflictsandCOVID，hewouldmeetmemoretimesandhadmoresex

InSeptember2016，Petitionerinvitedmetoliveinhishomeabout4or5nights，andcomplained“Whydidn’tyoucomeearlier?”Hewantedtotalkinbed，thenheaskedforhug，thenheaskedforkiss，thenheaskedforsex

InOctober2017，PetitionersharedwithmepicturesofhisnewhomeinWashington，invitedmetovisitandstaywithhim.InNovember2017，Petitionerinitiatedintimateconversationwithme，andinvitedmetospendthe2017ThanksgivingwithhiminHawaii.(SeeExhibit1)

InFebruary2018，duringChineseNewYear，oneorfewdaysbeforetheValentine’sDay，PetitionerinvitedmetomeethimintheChinesecityZhengzhou.InDecember2018，PetitionerinvitedmetovisitSeattletospendtheChristmasand2019NewYearholidaywithhim.InOctober2019，duringhistripinChina，PetitionerinvitedmetomeethiminShanghai，andtheninsistedonmeetinginXuzhou.Whenwemet，heinitiatedintimateactions，includinghuggingme，rushingovertomeopeningmyclothestoseemybreast.Wefinallyhadsex.Thatday，PetitionertooksexualphotosofRespondentwithoutherknowledgeandconsentandshowedherafterhereturnedtoSeattle.ThephotomightbestillinhisSumSungcellphone.(SeeExhibit2)

Intheperiodfrom2018to2020，PetitionerandIhadseveraldiscussionsaboutthepossibilitythatImovedtoSeattle.InMarch2018，PetitioneralsomadejobreferralstomeinAmazonandMicrosoftinSeattle，suggestingIshouldvisithiminSeattle.Inlate2019andearly2020，PetitionerandIagaindiscussedthepossibilityformetomovetoSeattle

InJanuary2020，PetitionerbookedanairlineticketformetoflyfromBeijingtoSeattlesoIcouldspendtheLunarNewYearwithhim.BeforemydeparturefromBeijing，ItoldPetitionerthatmyperiodmaycomesoon，hisresponsewas:“Canemperor[Petitioner]haveonerequesttomybelovedwife[me]?-Buymedicinetopostponeperiod…”(SeeExhibit3)

In2020，Petitionerassuredmehisaffectiononme，alsopromisedthat“wemayhavechanceinthefuture.”，andhewasnotreadyformarriageyetwhilehewasmarried.(SeeExhibit4，5，6)

InNovember2021，Petitionertalkedabouthis“bedromance，”madeintimatecommentssuchas“flipoverandspankass”

In2023，PetitionertoldmeafterIdeletedhisWeChat，heopenedmyWeChatprofilepictureandWeChatMoments“endlesstimes”toseemeduringthat13months.(SeeExhibit7)

InJanuary2023，Petitionershowedmeastatisticthatnowdaysyoungcoupleonlyhaveabouttwicesexayear.(SeeExhibit

Therefore，Theamountofsexdoesn’thidethefactsthatPetitionerandIhadintimaterelationshipevennotphysicallytogether

2)September2022.PetitionerexplicitlyinformedtheRespondentthathewasnotsingle，despitethisdisclosure，theRespondentcontinuedtopursueasexualrelationshipwithMr.Dai.SeeExhibits1(page6)

ResponsefromRespondent:

Thisislie

InSeptember2022，Petitionerdidnotsayheisnotsingle.Ididn’t，neverpursuedsexualrelationshipwithPetitioner.Petitioner’sevidencedoesnotprovehisstatement

Petitoner’scontinuousintimatebehaviorsfrom2016to2023mademetoexpectacommittedrelationshipwithhim，includingmarriageinthepast7years，andclearlytoldhimmanytimes.ItoldhimmanytimesthatIfullytrustedandlovedhim.Healsosaidhefullytrustedandlovedme，andpromisedmefuturepossibilitiesmanytimes.Iwantedloveandmarriage，hewantedsex，that’swhyhehadsexwithmeeverytimewhenwemet

Infact，on10/18/2022，duringtheconversation，Itriedtoaskifpetitionerissingleornot，said“Iforgotifyouhavegirlfriendornot”，Petitionerdidn’treply，onlyrepliedaemojiwithahandcoveringtheface.Iwrotediarythatday，andtoldmyfriendaboutthis.Ihaveatleast3witnessfromEuropeandChinatoprovethis.(SeeExhibit9)

On10/18/2022，Petitionersaidhecanmeetmeon10/20/2022afternoon

On10/20/2022，Itwasduringoursexthathe，forthefirsttime，toldmethathewasnotsingle.Around1pm，petitionercametomyhome.Wesatonthecouchtalking，andhemovedclosetomesayingheisnotkeepingdistancewithme.Hestartedhuggingmeinvariousgestures.Heputmyheadonhisshoulder，thenliftedmeupandputmylegsaroundhiswaist，thenheliftedmeupholdingmywholebody.Afterhehuggedmeforaboutsometimeinlivingroom，hesuggestedtohugmeinmybedroom.Inmybedroom，hepushedmetothewall，heldmecloselyandstartedkissingme.ThenhegavemeaBiDong/壁咚(afamousandsexualgestureforbossinpopularChineseTV)，andsaid“给你个壁咚“。Thenheputmeonmybedwithhimselfonthetop.Hehuggedmewithmoredifferentgesturesandkissedmylipandchest.Duringhavingsex，hesaidheisnotsingle.AfterIheardthat，Istopped，andcried.Hewipedmytearswithhiskiss，startedkissingmeagain，andtookoffmyclothesandhisclothes.Ifinallydidn’trefusehimbecauseIlovedhimandmissedhim.Hecameinsidemewithoutaskingformyconsent，thenhesaidweneedcondom.IsaidIdon’thaveandaskedhimifhehas.Hesmiledandaskedmetoguess.Hetookouttwocondomsfromhisjeanspocket.Iaskedhim“Youplannedthis!”Hesaid“Idon’twanttodisappointyou”.Wehadsextillabout4or5pm.Thenwehadawalkaroundlake，thenhelefthome

From10/2022to02/2023，Isuggestedafewtimesbreakup.Hesaidhedidn’tlikemetosaybreakup.Hesaidhe“wantednegativedistancewithme”，“hislovetomeis100%”，he“alwayslikesme”，he“wantedtoseeme”，he“missedme”，he“wantedtolivewithmeeverydayandsleepwithmeeverynight，”thathe，“withinthelimitedspaceandtime”，“triedhisbesttoloveandtreasure”me，“triedeverywaytoseeme”，“triedhisbesttoprotectme”，hecould“provehislovetomebymissingme，bythehighlyfrequentconversationswithme，bywithholdinghisdesireforsexwhenhemetme，byhiscareandhisspirituallovetome”.Evenon04/24/2023，whenhecalledme，andafterhethreatenedme，heassuredhis“seriousness”intherelationshiptome，andthathe“feelspainwhenhecouldnotseeme.”(SeeExhibit10，11)

3)SEXUALRELATIONSHIPENDEDFEBRUARYOF2023–PetitionertoldRespondentthatitwastimetoendthisandstopcontactinghi

ResponsefromRespondent:

Thisislie

On02/20/2023，Isuggestedbreakup，hesaidhewantstocontinuerelationshipwithme.Hediscussedwithmeafewtimesabouthowtoimproveourrelationship.On04/01/2023，heassuredmethathewantsourlongtermrelationship.On04/24/2023，afterhethreatenedmeincall，hestillsaidheplannedtoseeme3monthslaterafterhistripinChina.(SeeExhibit11)

4)Shecontinuedcontactinghim.Notoverthetop

ResponsefromRespondent:

Noevidence

Ididn’tcontacthimafterhepromisedmehewantsourrelationshipon04/01/2023.IdeletedhisWeChatandSkype.Oncontrary，heapproachedmeon04/24/2023，sentmefriendrequestonWeChat.(SeeExhibit12)

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5)Respondentadmittedshepublishedherlovestory，hidingparties’nameandpersonalinformation，forself-healingandfarewell.However，thefactisthat:

a.04/23/2023，RespondentwrotealargeamountofpornographiccontentinvolvingthedetailsofthesexlifeandpostedthemonsocialmediaplatformcalledLittleRedBook(SimilartoTwitter)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)LittleRedBookisnotsimilartotwitter.InGooglestore，TwitterhasoneBilliondownloadswith20Millionreviews，whileLittleRedBookonlyhas5Milliondownloadsand60Kreviews.Comparingtotwitter，LittleRedBookisnothing.Actually，LittleRedBookismainlypopulartoyoungChinesefemales.(SeeExhibit13)

2)Evidence?99%ofthereadersseemypainfullove，lessthan1%seesex.Whatoneseesreflectsone’smind.(SeeExhibit14，15，16)

b.04/23/2023，RespondentknewMr.Daiisaninfluencerontheinternet，soshehadtheintentionofharmingMr.Dai’sreputationanddemandingcompensationbyexposinghischannelnameandexposinghisinitialsinherposts.SeeExhibits2(page6)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)Noevidencetoprove“intentionofharming”

2)MystoryismytrueexperiencewithPetitioner.On04/24/2023，whenpetitionercalledme，heagreedthatmystoryistrue

3)Ididn’tmentionhispersonalinformationtoprotecthisprivacy

In04/2020，IknewhisWeibo.Inabout03/2022，IheardhispodcastonHimalaya.Inabout2023，InoticedhisLittleRedBook

From2020to2023，whenItoldPetitionerthatIsawhissocialmedia，hetoldmehedoesn’ttellanyofhisfamilymember，friend，colleagueabouthissocialmedia，thatheonlywantstotellwhenonedayit’smoresuccessful.SoIthoughtnoneofhisfriends/colleaguesknowhissocialmedia.(SeeExhibit17)

Inmystory，Imentioned“xx说美国“，”3Millionplays”“30000subscribers”.However，1)Iused“xx”toprotecthisprivacy.From“xx说美国“，it’snoteasytofindhisaccount.(SeeExhibit1

Actually，thisisspreadbyAmazonbeautygroup，asocialmediacommunityonWeChat，whichhas500Chinesefemalemembers，whoareAmazonemployeesorthewivesofmaleChineseAmazonemployees.Theyforwardedmystory，anddiscussed，foundPetitioner’sLittleRedBook，thenonefemalememberputallpiecestogether，thenaskedherfriend，andthenfoundhisinsandsawthephotosofPetitioner’sbabythatpostedbyPetitioneronsocialmedia，thenrevealedthetruththatPetitionermarriedatleastin2017andhasababyfrom02/2023.(SeeExhibit19)

Petitioner’saccounthadabout9Millionplays，40000subscribersin04/2023，notas”3Millionplays”“30000subscribers”mentionedinmystory.(SeeExhibit20)

c.05/16/2023，TheRespondentwenttogreatlengthstopubliclydisclosethePetitioner'sfullname，makingatleast10suchpoststhatwereaccessibletohisaudienceofapproximately40，000subscribers

ResponsefromRespondent:

Whatdoesthismean???What10posts???Whereisevidenceof“engageinternetviolence”???“threaten?”-anyChinesespeakerknowstherewasnothreats，pleaseasktheinternetuserswhopostedandcommentedmystoryandmakesstatistic

Regardingfullname:(Idon’tseewhereisit?)

1)PetitionerdeniedhisChinesenameisDaiKang/代抗On03/21/2023and04/24/2023.AsIdon’tknowhisrealnametillnow，Ihavenowaytodisclosehisname

2)Whenpetitionerreportedmetopoliceon05/01/2023，policeclearlytoldhimthat“name”ispublicinformation.(SeeExhibit21)

3)Petitioner’sfollowerapproachedtomeandsaid“name，marriage，havingchild”arepublicinformationinChina.(SeeExhibit22)

d.05/16/2023，RespondentthreatenedPetitioneronhersocialmedia，stating，“Ineedcompensation”，“Ifyoudon'tanswermeorcometoseeme，Iwilltryallmeanstofindpeoplewhomightknowyou.“SeeExhibits3(page9)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)IamnotactiveonHimalaya，Istartedtouseitfrom03/2022，lasttimeIuseditasabout11/2022.Ihadabout90inactive/dead/fakefollowers，nooneeverleftcommentorcommunicatedtome

2)“Ineedcompensation”，becausePetitionerpromisedmeon04/24/2023，thatI“couldbringanydemandtohim”duetohis7yearsliesandhurtingtome.(SeeExhibit31)

3)Ididn’tsay“ifyoudon’tcometoseeme”，Ididn’tsay“Iwilltryallmeans”.ThisiscompletewrongandmisleadingtranslationfromChinesetoEnglish

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6)RespondentadmittedshevisitedthePetitioner’sneighborhoodandonlytook2pictures.However，thefactis:

a.05/01/2023.ShepostedthepicturestogetherwithMr.Dai’sprivateaudiorecordonhersocialmediawithoutobtaininganyauthorization，whichisaclearviolationofprivacy.Furthermore，sheintentionallymarkedthelocationastheneighborhoodofthePetitioner'sproperty，seeminglywiththeintentionofmakingthreatsorcausingintimidation.SeeExhibits4(page10)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)Thefactisthat:Imeanttosayfarewellformyinternalclosureoftherelationship，it’sonlyaboutmyself，nothingabouthim.(SeeExhibit23)

2)Ididn’t“intentionally”markedlocationas“neighborhoodofthePetitioner'sproperty”.it’srandomly-setlocationbecauseIwasinIssaquah，becausethereisnolocationcalledIssaquahonLittleRedBook.That’showLittleRedBookworks.“SwedishIssaquahCampus”isover3200feetawayfromtheneighborhood“Issaquahwesthighland”.Ididn’t“seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics”，noevidence，thisisdefamationonme.(SeeExhibit24from“JacobsonDeclaration”)

3)On04/24/2023，afterPetitionercalledme，Ididn’trecordthecallinthebeginning.Afterhethreatenedmewithhisdeathataround3AM，whichmademeveryscared.Unknowninternetusersremindedmetorecordthecallasevidencetoprotectmyself.SoIrecordedtoprotectmyself.Hiscallwasfullofblames，threats，leis，beggingandmanipulation.Atthattime，Ididn’tknowthatIneedhisauthorizationtorecord，Iwastooscaredandexhaustedandjustwantedtoprotectmyself.Onewhohearsthecallwillknowhowhedeceivedme，blamedme，threatenedmeandmanipulatedme，willunderstandtheentirematter.However，untilIhiredattorney，IlearnedthatIneedopposingparty’sauthoritytorecordthecallinWA.Atthattime，Ijustwantedtoprotectmyself.Ineverexperiencedthisinmylife

4)Anyonewhoseethispostisnotabletolistentoit，asit’sjustagooglelink，averylongandcomplicatedlink.Theconversationissavedinprivategooglelink

5)Thepurposeofthelinkistodefendmyselffromcountlessdisgustingdefamationonme，asunknowninternetuserssuggestedthosedefamationfromPetitioner，Petitioner’swifeortheirfriends.(SeeExhibit25，26)

6)Itoldpetitioneraboutthedefamation，butheignoredit

7)ToprotectPetitioner’sprivacy，Iremovedthepartthatincludes/coulddisclosePetitioner’spersonalinformationincludinghisname.Therefore，it’sonlyabout1.5hours，not3or4hoursashecalledme.(Petitionertooksexualphotoofmewithoutmyknowledgeandconsent!)

8)Thelinkdoesn’tworkwell.Anotherlinkisblank.(SeeExhibit27)

9)Thegooglelinkofourconversationworkedataroundnoontimeon05/01/2023，afewhourslater，Isetthepermissiontoprivate，sonoonecanlistentoit，asIwantedtomoveon.Ialsodeleteditlater.(SeeExhibit2

10)Thelinkalsoincludedmyvoice.SoPetitioner’sevidenceshowedthatPetitioneralsorecordedmyvoicewithoutmyauthorization

11)Thecall/conversation/voiceisnotprivate，becausewhenhecalledme，hewasinahospital-apublicplace，andtherewerethirdpartiesspeaking，forexample，hiswifespokewithmeandhelpedhimlie，therewaspass-by’svoicesandhornsound

b.SheusedPetitionerdog’spictureasherprofilephoto，seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)Noevidenceof“seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics”

2)ThepictureofthedogispublishedbyPetitioneronsocialmediaWeiboin2020.it’sapublicpicture.(SeeExhibit29)

3)Iusedthepictureon04/23/2023.nothingtodowith05/01/2023

4)Ididn’tdisclosehisIDwhenIusedthispicture.IintentionallycutoffthepartincludeshisIDtoprotecthisprivacy.(SeeExhibit30)

5)On04/24/2023，whenPetitionercalledme，hesaid“canyouhideyouspostwithprofilepictureofthedog?”Heknewaboutthepicture，hedidn’trequestmetoremoveit，butonlywaitedtill05/16/2023，herequestedinhispetitionforprotectionorder.ActuallyIremoveditsoon

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7)RespondentacknowledgedreachingouttothePetitionerdespitethePetitioner'ssilence.Thefactisthaton04/24/2023，afternoticedthe“lovestories”ontheinternet，thePetitionercontactedwiththeRespondent，requestingthedeletionoftheposts.Inresponse，theRespondentconsistentlydemandedanapology.ThePetitionerapologizedthroughbothmessagesandcalls，butdespitethis，theRespondentfailedtodeletethepost.Furthermore，theRespondentpersistentlyinsistedonanapologyandcompensation.Inthisregard，thePetitionerstatedthefollowingtoaskhertostop:

a.“Noneedtosayanything，that’sit，Bye”

b.“Idon’twanttocallagain，let’senditonceforall.Ican’tdowhatyouorderanymore”SeeExhibits5(page11)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)“RespondentacknowledgedreachingouttothePetitionerdespitethePetitioner'ssilence.”isawrongexpression.Icontactedhimbecause1)Iwantedexplanationfromthemanwhodeceivedmeandmanipulatedmefor7yearswhileclearlyknowingthatIlovedhim.2)becausehepromisedthat“Icouldbringanydemands”，thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

2)“PetitionercontactedwiththeRespondent，requestingthedeletionoftheposts.”“Respondentfailedtodeletethepost.”Thisislie.Whereisevidence?Infact，Asherequested，Ididhidemypost.(SeeExhibit32，33)

WhyshouldIlistentohimforeverything?Mywritingofanonymouslovestoryismyspeechfreedom!Heusedtodominateourrelationship，actedaslikeemperor/king/mastertome.Forexample，once，WhenheplannedtomeetmeandwhenItoldKangDaithatmyperiodmaycomesoon，hisresponsewas:“Canemperor[KangDai]haveonerequesttomybelovedwife[me]?-Buymedicinetopostponeperiod…”

Whatdidhedoforme?

3)Whenpetitionerapologizedtomeoncallorbymessageforhisdeception，itwashismanipulationtorequestmetohidemyposts.Hetoldmemorelies.Thetruthisinthecall.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

4)AfterIsentthatdeedtoPetitioner，after20morehours，ataround9pmon04/24/2023，Petitioneradmittedhisdeception“frombeginningtoend”.afterthat，IfirsttimeaskedforapologybyWeChatCall.Herefused.Asawomanwhohasbeenliedtoandhurtforsuchalongtime，whofullytrustedandlovedhiminthepast，Iwantedacall.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

8)04/24/2023，Respondentsaid“Myrelationshipwithyouisover.”Then，shesaidshewantscompensation.Becauseheliedtoherandimpactedherformanyyears

ResponsefromRespondent:

“Myrelationshipwithyouisover.”hasnoconflicttorequestinganapologybycallfromthemanwhodeceivedandmanipulatedmefor7years，whothreatenedme，usedmeagaintoprotecthimself，andespeciallyPetitionertoldmethat“Icouldbringanydemands”，thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

9)After04/24/2023，Mr.Daistoppedansweringanyhercalls/messages/email

ResponsefromRespondent:

On04/24/2023，Petitionertoldmethat“Icouldbringanydemands”，thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

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10)Respondentadmittedshecontactedthirdparties，thefactisthatsheharassedalargeamountofnon-relatedpartiesincludingthePetitioner，hisfamily，company，managers，collogues，andRespondentsentmultipleemailstoanemaillistincludingrandomamazonemployeestodamagethePetitioner’sreputation

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)“sheharasseda“-nottrue，Ididn’t“harass”(SeeExhibit34)

2)“largeamount“-nottrue，not“largeamount”，only5or6receiptswhoarePetitioner’ssurperviorsandHR.(SeeExhibit34)

3)“hisfamily”-who?Whereisevidence?

4)“toanemaillistincludingrandomamazonemployees”-nottrue，only5or6receiptswhoarePetitioner’ssurperviorsandHR.(SeeExhibit34)

5)“todamagethePetitioner’sreputation”-nottrue，Ididn’thavethisintention

DuetoPetitioner’sthreatsinvariouswayson04/24/2023，(seeExhibit31)，duetoonlinepostsattackingmeandinsultingmewithslandersanddefamation，whichhadover100000views，andweresuggestedtobefromPetitioner，Petitioner’swife，andfriends，(Exhibit25，26)OnApril27，2023，fearingthatKangDaimayfurtherdefamemyreputation，andduetohisthreatsonApril24，2023andthoseonlinedefamationwhichcausedmyseverefear，afteralotofhesitation，IsentemailtoKangDai’ssupervisorsandHRatAmazontoreportKangDai’smisbehaviors.IdecidedtoreportKangDaitohissupervisorsatAmazonalsobecauseIbelievedthatKangDai’semployerasneutralthirdparty，shouldhavetheauthoritytomakeaninternalinvestigationandrevealthetruth.Becausehesaidhiscolleaguesallknewalready，andhissupervisorsareChinese，andinChineseculture，mangerandemployeecanmanagesuchtopicprivatelyandpeacefully.IdidnotreporthimtothepoliceasIwashopingtoresolvetheproblemsprivatelyandpeacefullywithKangDai.(SeeExhibit34)

Nextday，IreceivedreplyfromAmazonHR，whoinvitedinternalinvestigatortoconductinvestigationonthismatter.OnMay2，2023，Amazoninvestigatorinvitedmetoattendameetingatthesamedayforinvestigation.OnMay8，AmazonnotifiedmethatinvestigationwithKangDaiwaspostponedtoJulyduetohisoffwork2months，andtheinvestigationwillonlyconductafterhisreturntowork.IhaveneverreceivedanynoticefromAmazonInc.，orfromanyofKangDai’ssupervisorsthatmyreporthadharassedanyoneormisbehavedanyway.Oncontrary，AmazonHR，investigatorandhissupervisorallrepliedme，andtolemeAmazonencouragesanyonetoreportanyconcern，andpromisedtotakeitseriously.(SeeExhibit34)

11)FromaboutApril24nighttoaboutMay13，shestartedcallingandmessagingPetitionermultipletimeseveryweekandaskingforfinancialcompensation

a.Contactingupto12timesaday

i.April24night，11messages，1call

ii.April25，3messages

iii.April26，1message

iv.April28，1message

v.May10，6messages

vi.May11，3messages

vii.May12，2messages

viii.May13，1message

Duringthistimeperiod，heneverresponded

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)(SeeExhibit35)

2)Everyweek?From04/28/2023-05/10/2023，about2weeksnocontact，asIdecidedtomoveon，afterPetitionerdeceived，manipulated，hurtmefor7years.(SeeExhibit35)

3)“askingforfinancialcompensation.”aspromisedbypetitionerthat“Icouldbringanydemands”，thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

4)“heneverresponded”-hedidn’trespondafterhedeceived，manipulated，hurtmefor7years，andafterhethreatenedmeinvariousways.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)

12)APRIL28，Mr.DaiwasdiagnosedasDepressionwithanxietycausedbytheaboveevent.SeeExhibits6(page12)

ResponsefromRespondent:

Thereisnoevidencetoprovetheconnectionwithme

Evidencedoesn’tshowdate，hospital，doctor

However，Ihavecompassiononhim.Itmustnotfeelwellafter7yearscheatingwasexposedbyhisfriends.Hemustalsohadlotsofpressurewhilemeetingmeduringhiswife’spregnancy

Actually，in05/2023and06/2023，afterheknewIreceivedthetemporaryprotectionorder，hestartedworkingonsocialmedia，withverycheerfulvoice.(SeeExhibit36)

13)APRIL30，sheposted2googledrivelinkson，oneofthemostinfluentialChinesecommunitiesinNorthAmerica.(Impactofthepost:38K+views，77comments)

a.OnelinkisthesamecontentaspostedintheLittleRedBook

b.TheotheroneistheaudiorecordofthecallswithhimonApril24，withouthisauthorization.SeeExhibits7(page12)

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)Repeatagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6，a，b”

2)isNOT“oneofthemostinfluentialChinesecommunitiesinNorthAmerica.”，atleastIdon’tknow.Iregisteredmyaccounton04/23/2023asinternetusermentionedtomeaboutthiswebsite.(SeeExhibit37)

3)isforpeoplewhostudyorworkinU.S.That’sall.(SeeExhibit3

4)Mypostisundersubject“Intimacy”.(SeeExhibit39)

5)“38K+views，77comments”-Itdoesn’tmean38K+peoplereadit;“77”doesn’tmean77comments，anyChinesereaderknowit.Onegooglelinkeddoesn’twork，onegooglelinkisblank.Therefore，“impact”isnottrue.(SeeExhibit27)

6)Thegooglelinkofourconversationwaspublishedon05/01/2023ataroundnoontime，afewhourslater，Isetthepermissiontoprivate，sonoonecanlistentoit，asIwantedtomoveon.Ialsodeleteditlater.(SeeExhibit2

7)Ifyoulookatthepost，youwillseemostarejustargumentsbetweeninternetusers，notrelevanttopetitioner.Someareslanderstowardsme.Pleasereadthepost

12)“audiorecord”-Repeatthisagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6，a，b”.On04/24/2023，afterPetitionercalledme，Ididn’trecordthecallinthebeginning.Afterhethreatenedmewithhisdeathataround3AM(SeeExhibit31)，whichmademeveryscared.Unknowninternetusersremindedmetorecordthecallasevidencetoprotectmyself.SoIrecordedtoprotectmyself.Hiscallwasfullofblames，threats，leis，beggingandmanipulation.Atthattime，Ididn’tknowthatIneedhisauthorizationtorecord，Iwastooscaredandexhaustedandjustwantedtoprotectmyself.Onewhohearsthecallwillknowhowhedeceivedme，blamedme，threatenedmeandmanipulatedme，willunderstandtheentirematter.However，untilIhiredattorney，IlearnedthatIneedopposingparty’sauthoritytorecordthecallinWA.Atthattime，Ijustwantedtoprotectmyself.Ineverexperiencedthisinmylife

13)Petitioner’sevidenceshowedthathealsorecordedyvoicewithoutmyauthorization

14)Thecall/conversation/voiceisnotprivate，becausewhenhecalledme，hewasinahospital-apublicplace，andtherewerethirdpartiesspeaking，forexample，hiswifespokewithmeandhelpedhimlie，therewaspass-by’svoicesandhornsound

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14)MAY2，shetookphotosfromhisneighborhoodandusehisdog’spicasherprofilephoto

ResponsefromRespondent:

1)Repeatthisagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6，a，b”

2)May1，notMay2

3)Itookphotos，asIfoundtheviewbeautiful.Ihavefreedomtotakephotos.(SeeRespondentDeclaration&JacobsonDeclaration，seeExhibit24)

4)Thefactisthat:Imeanttosayfarewellformyinternalclosureoftherelationship，it’sonlyaboutmyself，nothingabouthim.(SeeExhibit23，24)

5)ThepictureofthedogispublishedbyPetitioneronsocialmediaWeiboin2020.it’sapublicpicture.(SeeExhibit29)

6)Iusedthepictureon04/23/2023.nothingtodowith05/01/2023

7)Ididn’tdisclosehisIDwhenIusedthispicture.IintentionallycutoffthepartincludeshisIDtoprotecthisprivacy.(SeeExhibit30)

8)On04/24/2023，whenPetitionercalledme，hesaid“canyouhideyouspostwithprofilepictureofthedog?”Heknewaboutthepicture，hedidn’trequestmetoremoveit，butonlywaitedtill05/16/2023，herequestedinhispetitionforprotectionorder.ActuallyIremoveditsoon

Forbelowpoints15-21，SeeExhibit40，41，42，43，44，45，46，47，thestatisticsandthecontentofmycontact.Asawomanwhowasdeceivedandmanipulatedinthepast7years，aspromisedbypetitionerthat“Icouldbringanydemands”，thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)，allofmylegitimatepurposetocontacthimistoseekforexplanation，closure，compensationashepromised

Therewasonlyoneday，on05/15/2023，Icalledhimover20timesintotal.Mycallsweredrivenbyemotionalsadnessneedforexplanationsandclosure，buttheyonlyoccurredonthatspecificdayandwerelimitedtoasingleinstance，1timein7-years